A Word from one of our Ministers

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Friends,

It is always slightly strange to be writing this so long before Christmas, but this is the system and so we do! But you will need to bear with me whilst I get to Christmas now…

I read somewhere recently that faith requires us to relinquish control. That concurs with the 12 step programme, which uses the word “surrender” in relation to a Higher Power. We are constantly battling the ways of the world, our own humanity and our desires – all against the call of God on our lives. We have fears and beliefs around what we think is possible and I see a national church with falling membership, a local church struggling with reducing numbers of volunteers and financial challenges. I suspect that some of us think that it is impossible for us to bring the church, local or national, back into growth, to turn around the trajectory; I think I would agree. It is indeed likely to be impossible FOR US. But not for our God.

Humanity tends to see the challenges, the negative, the hurdles. I don’t know what God focuses on. I suspect that God is more interested in the man who slid into the back row on Sunday morning for only his second visit and saw how warmly he was welcomed. I think God is interested in the conversations I have been having with another man who is being increasingly drawn to church events and who wants to encounter God. I hope God is watching over the Monday night course and is encouraged by the depths of the conversations which are happening, where people are feeling a bit uncomfortable, but they keep coming. I know God is moving amongst the families
at Messy Church and is inspiring our volunteers. God is drawing new people into conversations at the Friday Café, and the community that uses the Cafes that run alongside the Community Fridge on Tuesdays and Thursdays is growing stronger too. These are green shoots of promise…….

If faith does indeed require us to surrender to God’s will, that sounds tricky. You might disagree – that’s OK too. For me, Christmas is an opportunity to reflect further on this: look at what God did through Elizabeth and Zechariah, through Mary and Joseph, and their lives. Could we set aside our own agendas and desires, ambitions and ideas, and realise that WE cannot do the work for the growth of Cornerstone on our own, but that God indeed can do it, if it is God’s will (and we might need to be open to the idea that it might not be: God might have a bigger plan). Then we would be able to join Mary in the soaring praise of the Magnificat in the words of that
lovely hymn: “Tell out my soul, the greatness of the Lord!”

This Christmas, would you join me in seeking out the tiny, tender shoots of hope that spring up from the stumps of the past, and find joy and deep peace in doing God’s will, for the sake of the Kingdom?

As we begin Advent together now, my prayer is that we are all able to take some time to pause in the hurly-burly of the Christmas madness and appreciate afresh all that God came to earth as Emmanuel to be for us. In time, I wish you and all your families the joy of the Christmas season,and the blessings of the Christ-child, fresh from heaven in the manger, vulnerable and precious, as every new baby is. May we know that deep peace that comes from knowing Jesus, now and evermore.

Blessings,
Sarah

Alison Nickells, 27/11/2025
Glenys
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Planning your Visit

A warm welcome
We are one Church in three locations and we will be pleased to welcome you. Although we are different on the outside, inside you will find communities of believers gathering to praise and worship God as Father, Son and Holy Spirit, and trying to live out our faith by serving others as best we can.
 
How to find us
Choose the chapel which is convenient for you, a map can be found on each chapel’s homepage. For those arriving by car, there is a small car park at the London Road chapel, and nearby parking on the road and in public car parks. At St Andrew’s and Partridge Green, there is parking in the roads nearby. If coming by train, St Andrew’s chapel is a 15-minute walk from Littlehaven station and London Road chapel is about ten minutes from Horsham station.
 
Planning your visit
For your first visit, we suggest arriving about 10–15 minutes early. You will be greeted by a Welcome Steward who will be able to answer any questions you may have. All our chapels are wheelchair-accessible and have accessible toilets. There is a hearing loop for those who need it at the London road chapel. At all chapels hymn words are displayed on a screen, but hymn books are available if you prefer. However, do check the calendar as we sometimes have joint services and so we will only be meeting in one of the chapels.
 
Our Services
The Sunday services in all our chapels is at 10.30am. For more information see our Sunday Services page (link). The service lasts for 60–75 minutes, and includes hymns and songs, prayer, Bible readings and a talk, usually based around the readings. The service is led by one of own ministers or by a lay person who has been trained in leading worship. Once a month in each chapel we celebrate the Sacrament of Holy Communion, to which all are welcome. Gluten-free bread and alcohol-free wine are used at this service. At the end of the service, tea, coffee and biscuits are served and there is the opportunity to chat informally. Please do introduce yourself; we will be pleased to get to know you.
 
Worship in Song
We realise that Sunday worship is not convenient for everyone. At our London Road chapel we have a monthly service on a Thursday, which is held in the afternoon at 2.30pm. Please see our calendar for the dates. This is a shorter, more informal act of worship, accompanied by tea/coffee and cake, and held in the ‘Meeting Place’, a new space at the front of the chapel.
 
Can I bring my children?
Messy Church, which is especially for parents, carers and children, takes place at St Andrew's on the 3rd Sunday of the month from 3 to 5pm and at Partridge Green during the school holidays (see our calendars for dates and to book for Messy Church at St Andrew's). 

If you would like to talk to one of our ministers, please use our Contact Us page. We look forward to welcoming you soon.